You might’ve felt it before: a gaping hole, an emptiness in the middle of your chest right at the core. If so, you’ve probably felt the desire to latch onto somebody. There’s a complete emptiness, and being connected to another person can “fill” that. Where you felt a complete lack, now there’s something. Something to […]
If you want to increase your motivation, set goals you care about more. Motivation comes from wanting an outcome enough to put in work, and thinking you stand a shot at achieving it. It’s not something you can magically will up to feel about any goal you “should” want; you can only feel motivated for […]
Is this choice you’re making about alleviating a feeling of angst or unease at its root, or about realizing and expressing a level of excitement and curiosity?
“Fixing your insecurities” is probably prolonging them: you’re likely trying to fix them out of fear. Stop acting from fear and fueling your insecurities – learn to act only for the reward you seek to gain, not the pain you seek to avoid – and discover what it means to live. Why I’m Quitting Relationships…For Now […]
You remember that girl I referenced yesterday? I had an interaction with her a bit ago. The situation is a great demonstration of a few important insights. Insight #1 We talked earlier today about hanging out. I decided not to. We’re both working on not surrendering our selves to others in relationships, and we’ve each committed […]